How do I survive a long distance relationship?

You've already said it will be hard. You've already said the phone isn't enough. You've already said you two will not be visiting each other due to the cost. You can Skpe and email. But none of those things can bring you the physical connection you probably require.

She could probably be fine with it. You'll always have those who made it work. But there are a hell of a lot more whose relationships tanked! You both will meet interesting people whi will be readily available to socialize with or date. It isn't about trusting.

It is about a basic human need for spontaneity. This is lost in LDR. The truth is, you don't know what the other person is doing while you're away. You think they will tell you? The only way this will last will be if you both communicate, sacrifice time, money, and visit each other enough; where both of your relationship *needs* are able to be satisfied.

With the time constraints and stress studying will bring, it WILL be hard. Yes, it can be done, if both people love each other enough to handle those challenges. But, be honest with her and move on if you already know you're not up for the challenges.

Because nothing hurt worse than someone being committed and sacrificing, while the other has secretly moved on. Only, for the other person who is highly anticipating graduation, to find out they were dumped. And, who they loved moved on with someone else. Possible or not, keep it honest with each other!

- Response by thelovedovefor1, A Creative, Female, 46-55, Atlanta, Who Cares?

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